Last month, we all lost an amazing person too soon when Jim Kinsey passed away unexpectedly. Jim was not only a dear friend and partner in Avison Young’s Tri-State Investment Sales group, but my sounding board for over 20 years. I still feel like I am in shock, as many who knew him still are. We, and I know his family, are grateful for all the support to help us get through this difficult time.
I would love to share
with everyone what Jim taught me, and for those who didn’t know him, a sense of
who he was. I got to know Jim by representing his family in the sale of a
property early in my career. After we closed our first deal together, it was
very clear that he knew a lot more about the business than I did. In addition
to working for his family, he also had his own mortgage broker business. He
knew how to get deals done. I convinced him to join Massey Knakal and try
investment sales. He loved that company and its people, but quickly
outgrew his territory and decided to start his own brokerage firm, ERG, which
rose in the ranks very quickly. He later started Kinsey Capital. What is
amazing is how he kept in touch with all those people he worked with over the
We’d meet up frequently
for coffee or catch up over the phone to trade notes and share some laughs. He
had such a great way about him and always knew the right thing to do.
Three and half years ago, when I wanted to start a new investment sales team at
Avison Young, I called Jim. It would be a heavy lift and I couldn’t do it
alone. He was the only one who could do it all. He agreed to be my
partner in the new venture. We spent time round the clock planning how to build
out the best sales team in New York City.
Once at AY, Jim quickly
became the go-to to get things done. In addition to fulfilling the role as the
sales manager for our team, our company asked him to step up to the role of COO
of US Capital Markets. He was, in fact, working two jobs, but somehow always
had time to be there for people, especially the newcomers looking to break out
into the business.
The loss of Jim was
shocking and will take years to process, but Jim would want us all to continue
soldiering on. I’ve heard the saying that no one wants their tombstone to read
“I wish I spent more time in the office.” Although this is certainly true for
Jim, as family always came first, he loved the business and the process of
working the deal. It was hard not to get caught in conversation and start
sharing war stories.
Some of the greatest
things I’ve heard from colleagues is that Jim made them a better person. Just
being around him had that effect. Some even said he had a certain “Yoda-like”
quality to him.
Here are some lessons
learned from Jim that we can all embody to have his memory live on:
- Family first – as busy as Jim was, he was always there for his
wife Nicki, his son James, and daughter Noel. He’d leave events early so he
could take his son to a hockey practice. Be there for your family.
- Be an advocate for your people – take a genuine interest in those
around you. Have a giving mentality without an expectation of getting anything
- Shoot straight – sounds like an obvious one, but sometimes it’s
easier to talk yourself around a situation. Tell it how it is. People appreciate
the truth, even if it’s not the news they want to hear.
- Always deliver – don’t overpromise, and underdeliver. Your
reputation of getting things done is far more important than coming up short.
- Be a problem solver – focus on the solution, not the problem.
- Don’t take yourself too seriously – especially when life get
tough, find the humor in things.
- Grow everyday – Jim was always learning and open to
- Find your inner peace – Jim embraced mediation and Buddhism. He
was able to stay balanced and always have a positive outlook on life.
Above all, what’s most
important is to live each day to its fullest. It’s cliché, but Jim’s passing
reminds us all to never take each day for granted. Make a special effort
to reach out to those around you today to express your love. Ask yourself “what
would Jim do?”
For those who would like
to support Jim’s family, they have asked for donations to his children’s 529
college plans. Code for James Kinsey III: L9Y – Q3N. Code for Noelle Kinsey:
33P – T42
Please find a link here
with additional information on how to
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